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]]> http://serenityhacker.com/2009/09/stop-arguing/comment-page-1/#comment-98 Miche Mon, 05 Oct 2009 23:27:38 +0000 http://serenityhacker.com/?p=324#comment-98 Hi Suzanne, thanks for stopping by. I definitely can't stand arguing. I do get sucked in sometimes but then I stop and go through these steps, which usually dissipates things. One thing I've learned over the past few years is that it's okay to leave things unresolved for a while. When I was younger, I felt that everything needed to be resolved immediately. If I've done my best to listen and respond, and the conversation can end amicably, I don't need to "fix" everything in one conversation. Now I'm okay with letting things be in disrepair for a while, and letting things wait. :) Hi Suzanne, thanks for stopping by. I definitely can’t stand arguing. I do get sucked in sometimes but then I stop and go through these steps, which usually dissipates things. One thing I’ve learned over the past few years is that it’s okay to leave things unresolved for a while. When I was younger, I felt that everything needed to be resolved immediately. If I’ve done my best to listen and respond, and the conversation can end amicably, I don’t need to “fix” everything in one conversation. Now I’m okay with letting things be in disrepair for a while, and letting things wait.

]]> http://serenityhacker.com/2009/09/stop-arguing/comment-page-1/#comment-97 Suzanne Mon, 05 Oct 2009 23:06:59 +0000 http://serenityhacker.com/?p=324#comment-97 Very good points and definitely something I need to read right now. I used to be a calm person once, and I want to return to that place again. When my husband gets defensive, I am definitely going to be running the ideas above through my head, because I will be joining in soon thereafter if not. I do not want to argue with him, especially the fast and heated ones we now have. .-= Suzanne´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TakingCareOfYou/~3/QMEbB7PDVG8/quote-to-reflect-upon-oct09.html">Quote to Reflect Upon (Oct09)</a> =-. Very good points and definitely something I need to read right now. I used to be a calm person once, and I want to return to that place again. When my husband gets defensive, I am definitely going to be running the ideas above through my head, because I will be joining in soon thereafter if not. I do not want to argue with him, especially the fast and heated ones we now have.
Suzanne´s last blog ..Quote to Reflect Upon (Oct09)

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